The Lifestyle: Mission

Discover your unique mission.

You are the light of the world.

Mission starts with relationships, and great relationships are built through conversation. Jesus was the master question asker, and we do well to follow his example. Questions show curiosity and guide conversations into new and interesting territory.

Conversation Openers

Seek areas of conversation that make people light up and talk freely.

Occupational
  • What do you study / do for work?
  • What does your typical day look like?
  • How did you become interested in your field?
  • Did you always want to be a ________?
 
Leisure
  • What are you (and your spouse / kids) doing this weekend (summer / the holidays / etc)?
  • What do you like to do for fun (or on a day off)?
  • What sorts of things do you enjoy doing (as a family)?
  • Reading any good books lately?
  • Do you have any hobbies you enjoy?
  • What are you passionate about?
Personal History
  • Did you grow up here?
  • What is it like to live (here or wherever they’re from)?
  • Do you have family? (Find out names, kids’ ages, how long married, how did you meet, etc.)
  • How did your family celebrate Thanksgiving / Halloween / Christmas / etc. growing up?
  • Do you have any pets?

Follow-up Prompts

A follow-up question takes things further, showing genuine interest.

  • Tell me more about that.
  • Were you always interested in that?
  • You mentioned you were planning to _________. How was that?
  • I don’t know much about _________. Tell me more about it!
  • Ask about the details: Who, what, where, when, why?
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Questions to Go Deeper

A well-timed question can open the door to deep, authentic sharing.

  • How are you dealing with that?
  • What is important to you in that decision-making process?
  • How have things been going for you lately?
  • How are you holding up?
  • What joys or challenges have you experienced recently?
  • Have you been enjoying your job/parenting/your major/your free time lately?
  • What are you grateful for?
  • What do you find meaningful?
deep conversation

Spiritual Questions

Once trust is established, ask spiritual questions to build a shared experience of faith. Asking these questions build community and shows support.

  • How do you like to pray? What is prayer like for you?
  • Were you always Catholic?
  • How did you come to believe what you do now?
  • How is God asking you to grow or take a risk?
  • What has God been showing you lately?
  • What is your relationship with God like?
  • How has Jesus been good news to you lately?
  • What’s getting in the way of you following Jesus the way that you want to?

A blueprint for deeper relationships and life-changing faith

Whether we know it or not, we all have family members or friends who are fighting hidden battles of doubt, alienation, isolation, guilt, compulsions, grief, or hopelessness. But often we don’t know how to offer the good news of Jesus to them in these struggles.

Mission-Ready Friendship shows you how to go deeper to become the friend Jesus created you to be. It spells out simple, incremental practices any Catholic can use to develop deeper, more purposeful friendships.

Articles on Mission

Read our latest thoughts on mission in the life of a missionary disciple.

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